Saturday, April 25, 2009

Give 100 % in relationship

A Small Story…
A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed.
The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl.. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.
That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn't sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.

Moral of the story: If you don't give your hundred percent in a relationship, you'll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.. This is applicable for any relationship like love, employer-employee relationship etc., Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully

Start living your life......

(Please read from start to end, this may change your life)

It's another morning.......
Again I have to go to office

Ohh, this is me... I shouted having a glance on my snap in today's newspaper.
But what the HELL it is doing in the death column??
One sec...
Let me think, last night when I was going to bed I had a severepain in my chest, but I don't remember anything after that, I think I had asound sleep.
Its morning now,
It's already 10:00 AM,
where is my coffee?
I will be late for office and my boss will get a chance to irritate me.
Where is everyone...? ?? I screamed.

"I think there is a crowed outside my room, let me check." I said tomyself.

So many people..... Not all of them crying...But why some of them crying...


I m laying there on the floor..."I AM HERE" ... I shouted!!!

No one listen."LOOK I AM NOT DEAD" ...
I screamed once again!!!
No one is interested inme.They all were looking me on the bed.I went back to my bed room."Am I dead??" I asked myself.Where is my wife, my children, my mom-DAD, my friends?I found them in the next room, all of them were crying... still trying toconsole each other.

My wife was crying... she was really looking sad.My little kid was not sure what happened, but he was crying just coz his mom was sad.How can I go without saying my kid that I really love him, I really do careof him. ??How can I go without saying my wife that she is really most beautiful andmost caring wife in this world..??

How can I go without telling my friends that without them perhaps I haved one most of the wrong things in my life... thanks for being there alwayswhen I need them... and sorry for not being there when they really needme..I can see a person standing in the corner and trying to hide his tears...Ohh... he was once my best friend, but a small misunderstanding made uspart, and we both have strong enough ego to keep us disconnect.I went there.. And offered him my hand,

"Dear friend... I just want to saysorry for everything, we r still best friend, please forgive me."No response from other side, what the hell?? He is still preserving his ego, I am saying sorry... even then!!!I really don't care for such people.But one sec.... it seems he is not able to see me!!!! He did not see myextended hand.

My goodness... AM I REALLY DEAD???I just sat down near ME; I was also feeling like crying..."OHH ALMIGHTY!!!! PLEASE JUST GIVE ME FEW MORE DAYS....

"I just wasn't to make my wife, my parents; my friends realize that how muchI love them.
My wife entered in the room, she looks beautiful."YOU R BEAUTIFUL" I shouted.She didn't hear my words, in fact she never heard these words coz I neversaid this to her."GOD!!!!" I screamed... a little more time plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. .

I cried...One more chance please...
to hug my child, , to say sorry to my friends foreverything I have not given to them, and thanks for still being in mylife....Then I looked up and cried!!!!I shouted...."GOD!!!! ONE MORE CHANCE PLEASE!!!!""You shouted in your sleep," said my wife as she gently woke me up.

"Didyou have a nightmare?
"I was sleeping....Ohh that was just a dream....My wife was there... she can hear me...This is the happiest moment of my life...I hugged her and whispered... .

"U R THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND CARING WIFE INTHIS UNIVERSE.... I REALLY LOVE U DEAR"I can't understand the reason of the smile on her face with some tears inher eyes, still I m happy.... :)


So, Now it's not late.. Forget your egos, past........ ..., and expressyour love to others...... .... Be friendly..... ......... ..

Keep smiling and be happy for ever...

Saturday, April 18, 2009


After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman outto dinner and a movie. She said I love you but I know this other womanloves you and would love to spend some time with you.

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who hasbeen a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my threechildren had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.

'What's wrong, are you well,' she asked? My mother is the type of womanwho suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a signof bad news.

'I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you,' I responded. 'Justthe two of us.'

She thought about it for a moment, and then said, 'I would like thatvery much.'

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bitnervous.

When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to benervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She hadcurled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrateher last wedding anniversary.

She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.

'I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they wereimpressed, 'she said, as she got into the car. 'They can't wait to hearabout our meeting'. We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant,was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the FirstLady.

After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Large print. Half way throughthe entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. Anostalgic smile was on her lips.

'It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,' shesaid.

'Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor,' Iresponded.

During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation - nothingextraordinary, but catching up on recent events of each other's life. Wetalked so much that we missed the movie.

As we arrived at her house later, she said, 'I'll go out with you again,but only if you let me invite you.' I agreed. 'How was your dinnerdate?' asked my wife when I got home. 'Very nice. Much more so than Icould have imagined,' I answered.

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happenedso suddenly that I didn't have time to do anything for her. Some timelater, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt fromthe same place mother and I had dined.

An attached note said: 'I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure thatI could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for youand the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meantfor me.

I love you, son.'

At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: 'ILOVE YOU!'and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than God and your family. Give them the time they deserve,because these things cannot be put off till 'some other time.'

Women are always Clever

Man: "Haven't we met before?"
Woman: "Yes, I'm the receptionist at the V.D. Clinic."

Man: "Haven't I seen you someplace before?"
Woman: "Yeah, that's why I don't go there anymore."

Man: "Is this seat empty?"
Woman: "Yes, and this one will be too if you sit down."

Man: "So, wanna go back to my place?"
Woman: "Well, I don't know. Will two people fit under a rock?"

Man: "Your place or mine?"
Woman: "Both. You go to yours and I'll go to mine."

Man: "I'd like to call you. What's your number?"
Woman: "It's in the phone book."

Man: "But I don't know your name."
Woman: "That's in the phone book too."

Man: "So what do you do for a living?"
Woman: "I'm a female impersonator."

Man: "I know how to please a woman."
Woman: "Then please leave me alone."

Man: "I want to give myself to you."
Woman: "Sorry, I don't accept cheap gifts."

Man: "I can tell that you want me."
Woman: "Ohhhh. You're so right. I want leave."

Man: "Hey Cutie, how 'bout you and I hitting the hot spots?"
Woman: "Sorry, I don't date outside my species."

Man: "May I see you pretty soon?"
Woman: "Why? Don't you think I'm pretty now?"

Man: "Your body is like a temple."
Woman: "Sorry, there are no services today."

Man: "I'd go through anything for you."
Woman: "Good! Let's start with your bank account."

Man: "I would go to the end of the world for you."
Woman: "Yes, but would you stay there?"

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Moral story

A good story for you..... please don't fail to read....

Priya married Hitesh this day. At the end of the wedding party, Priya's mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook. With Rs.1000 deposit amount.
Mother: 'Priya, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your marriage
life. When there's something happy and memorable happened in your new life, put some money in. Write down what it's about next to the line. The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I've done the first one for you today. Do the others with Hitesh.When you look back after years, you can know how much happiness you've had.'
Priya shared this with Hitesh when getting home. They both thought it was a great idea and were anxious to know when the second deposit can be made.

This was what they did after certain time: -
7 Feb: Rs.100, first birthday celebration for Hitesh after marriage -
1 Mar: Rs.300, salary raise for Priya -
20 Mar: Rs.200, vacation trip to Bali -
15 Apr: Rs.2000, Priya got pregnant -
1 Jun: Rs.1000, Hitesh got promoted ...... and so on...

However, after years, they started fighting and arguing for trivial things.They didn't talk much. They regretted that they had married the most nasty people in the world.... no more love....Kind of typical nowadays, huh?

One day Priya talked to her Mother: 'Mom, we can't stand it anymore. We agree to divorce. I can't imagine how I decided to marry this guy!!!'

Mother: 'Sure, girl, that's no big deal. Just do whatever you want if you really can't stand it. But before that, do one thing first. Remember the saving passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money and spend it first. You shouldn't keep any record of such a poor marriage.' Priya thought it was true. So she went to the bank, waiting at the queue and planning to cancel the account.
While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joy and happiness just came up her mind. Her eyes were then filled with tears.. She left and went home. When she was home, she handed the passbook to Hitesh, asked him to spend the money before getting divorce.
The next day, Hitesh gave the passbook back to Priya. She found a new
deposit of Rs.5000. And a line next to the record: 'This is the day I notice how much I've loved you thru out all these years. How much happiness you've brought me.' They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back to the safe. Do you know how much money they had saved when they retired? I did not ask.I believe the money did not matter any more after they had gone thru all the good years in their life.

"When you fall, in any way, Don't see the place where you fell, Instead see the place from where you slipped. Life is about correcting mistakes."